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Are You Really Too Busy?   Leave a comment

Have you ever scheduled a gym session in for the day and by day’s end it just didn’t happen?  Did you ever plan on meditating to start your day but by the time you got to work you realized that instead of clearing your mind first thing it actually just slipped your mind?

We have a lot of rationalizations for these scheduling shortcomings.  You got out of work late so you didn’t have time to stop by the gym on the way home.  Or you got home and now you have other things to do so you just don’t think you’ll be able to squeeze time in for meditating.  Or there are a backlog of other obligations you need to attend to and the gym and meditation room just aren’t high enough on the list to make the cut.

You really believe that you want to do these activities, if only there was time.  But try as you might you just don’t seem to be able to find any room in your schedule to accommodate these activities.  If only there were more time in the day.

Is that really true though?  Is it absolutely impossible to work in anything more to your schedule?

Ask yourself this.  What if, instead of meditating for half an hour, you were told that you’d be put in a room with your favorite celebrity for that same amount of time?  I bet your schedule would be empty enough to fit that in.

Or if your hour of gym time, that you couldn’t possibly make today because your booked, suddenly become an hour alone with your fantasy crush.  Would you text your crush to tell them that you just can’t spare the time?  Probably not.

In reality we know that we could make the time for the activities if we were truly motivated to do so, we just aren’t.  If you allow yourself to be fooled by the excuse that you just can’t find the time then you never look hard enough to find the real reason you don’ t do these beneficial activities.

So spend a little time considering why you can’t make that time.  There are many reasons why people can’t find the time, but the only one that matters is the reason you’re not finding it.  When you get your reason take out a piece of paper and draw a line down the center.  On one side list the ways this reason is benefiting you, and on the other a list of how it’s hurting you.  Keep the list with you and when you find that you “don’t have the time” to meditate or go to the gym take out your list and read it.  I’m guessing the list of benefits won’t take much of any time to read, but the list of hurts will.

Hopefully when you’ve had a moment to see how your “reason” is affecting your life you’ll be motivated to get to the gym or clear some time to clear your mind.  Do this often enough and you’ll get into the habit of going to the gym and meditating.  And once it’s a habit you’ll easily find the time for it, no matter how busy your schedule really becomes.  Have a great day.  Peace.

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Weekly Vlog Up On YouTube   Leave a comment

This week’s vlog is about time and how it relates to your self-improvement journey, with plenty of nerdy references to everyone’s favorite Time Lord Doctor Who.  If you have the time give it a watch.  Like if you enjoy it.  Leave a comment telling me what you think.  Also if you have any suggestions on how I can make these vlogs better leave a comment on that, too.  Subscribe and click the notification bell if you want to be immediately notified every time I upload a video.  Have a great week.  Peace.

Quick Thought   Leave a comment

It’s all very well and good that you want to lose weight to be healthier.  Who wouldn’t want that?  How many people do you know who go around thinking “If only I were less healthy how much better would things be?”

Don’t just focus on being healthier.  Consider what you mean by being healthier.  Does that just mean being lighter?  Well if you lose a couple of pounds of muscle you’d be lighter, but I’m guessing you wouldn’t really be happier.

Does being healthier mean being sick less often?  Does it mean running faster?  Perhaps, to you, it means changing, lowering, or possibly even not having to take medications you’re currently on.  Or even just sleeping better.

There aren’t any right or wrong answers here.  Just follow the train of thought where it leads.  You start out with wanting to be healthier.  Healthier to you means having lower body fat.  Better muscle definition.  A chiseled jaw line.  You realize you want to be healthier to be more attractive.

Or maybe carrying all the extra weight you do means you don’t move as well.  So you want to be healthier to be more mobile.  And once you become more mobile you’ll go out and do more in nature.  You just want to be able to explore the world of nature around you.

Again, there’s no right or wrong here, just follow the path to the end.  And when you arrive mentally at your destination put a pin in it like you would on Google Maps to always have it available to look up later.

Because some days you may not feel like eating as healthy.  Some days you may be tired and don’t feel like exercising.  Some days you might not feel like taking a few extra minutes out of your day to do a blog post.  You’d rather call it an early day and get to dreaming.

And then you pull out your mental map with the pin in it.  You remember where you’re headed.  You recall how much you want to be there.  Suddenly that cheat meal doesn’t seem so tasty.  Suddenly you realize you need to at least start the workout and see where it goes.  Suddenly you know that the dreams will be waiting for you in a few minutes, after you’ve shared on your blog.

Nice thing about maps is that they’re there when you need them.  You don’t have to study it all day.  Just occasionally take a gander every now and again to keep yourself on track.  Check your map every so often and you’re sure to reach your destination.  Have a great day.  Peace.

Weekly Weigh In Video   Leave a comment

Here’s the run down on the progress I’ve made this week.  Let me know what you think.  Like if you enjoyed the update.  Subscribe and click the notification bell if you’d like to follow my journey with me.  Have a great day.  Peace.

Quick Thought   Leave a comment

I’ve posted before about goal setting and checking your course every now and again.  It’s important to know where you are, where you want to be, and if you’re on the right path to get there.  Being on the right path, though, isn’t enough.

Will Rogers famously said “Even if you’re on the right track you’ll get run over if you just sit there.”  And that’s a very important message.

Think about this.  Perhaps you’ve wanted to lose weight and you’ve heard about the ketogenic diet.  So you get a curiosity about you on the topic and start looking online for information.  You find a blog or two about the ketogenic diet and you scroll through the posts and check out all the progress pics.  It certainly seems like the real deal.

You start following people on YouTube and Instagram that are living a ketogenic lifestyle.  From them you learn about their journey and what they’re doing daily to meet the goals of being keto.  You look back to past posts and videos and you’re amazed at how far they’ve come.  Clearly you can lose a lot of weight on the ketogenic diet.

But you’re a nuts and bolts kinda person so you download a few books on the ketogenic diet to your Kindle and get to reading.  Some of the books are broad and give sweeping advice, others are more narrow and scientific.  Altogether they have given you a complete understanding of how the diet works.  You understand ketosis like a pro.  You can develop ketogenic meal plans in your sleep.

Over the last month of information consumption you’ve become a storehouse of ketogenic knowledge.  I could ask you questions about gluconeogenesis and you could tell me for a guy my weight what level of protein to stay below to avoid it.  I could ask you the difference between ketosis and ketoacidosis and you could expound on that for an hour.  I’m at the store and want to buy something new, but I’m not sure if it’s keto friendly.  One text to you and now I do.  You’re clearly on the ketogenic track.

But you look down at your belly and you realize you haven’t even lost an ounce.  Why?  You’ve been so busy learning you haven’t been doing.  Having knowledge about a subject is great, but putting it into practice is better.  You need to take the first step and begin walking the path.

This applies to anything you might learn or think about.  Got goals?  Well if you aren’t taking steps to achieve them you’ve actually only Got dreams.  Want a calmer mind?  Sitting around thinking about a calmer mind pretty much is the opposite of what you’re after.  Thought about learning a new language?  Downloading Babel+ won’t get you any closer to that if you never open the app.

Don’t just find the path, walk it.  Don’t wonder how your life could be, live it.  To quote the great philosopher, “Do or do not, there is no try.”.  Take that first step down the right track today and you just got one step closer to the life you want to live.  Have a great day.  Peace.

New Vlog Up on YouTube.   Leave a comment

My latest blog is live on YouTube.  It’s about setbacks.  No matter what goal you are trying to accomplish there is always the possibility of setbacks.  The easiest way to deal with them is to plan for them.  There’s nothing wrong with doing so.  It isn’t negative or pessimistic, it’s about being prepared.  I expand on this point in my vlog this week.  I hope you enjoy it.  If you do, please leave a like on my YouTube channel.  If you agree or disagree I’d love to hear your opinion on the vlog, so please leave a comment either on here or on the YouTube channel.  If you like the vlog enough that you want to follow my journey on YouTube please subscribe there and by clicking the bell you’ll be immediately notified every time I post a new video.  Have a great week.

Quick Thought   Leave a comment

I’ve talked a bit about the Law of Attraction.  I’ve mentioned how it’s important to have faith that the things you wish for will come your way.  Jumping without a net level of faith, even.

That’s a very high level of faith.  And you might think that I’m saying it will only work if you’re willing to put all your eggs in one basket without any concern for the future.  To be clear that is not what I’m saying.

Nothing in the LOA says that you have to put yourself in a tenuous spot for it to work.  Nothing in the LOA says that you can’t prepare a little just in case.

Think of it this way.  The 2019 Chevrolet Corvette Stingray is a pretty fast car.  It can go from 0-60 mph in 3.7 seconds.  So just a little faster than my Prius.  It is a well-built car with many safety features like ABS brakes, traction control, and Active Handling.  So it’s designed to be driven hard while maintaining a good level of safety.  And I like to think of myself as a pretty good driver.  One would think between my good driving skills and the Stingray’s safety features there’s going to be little chance of a crash.  And yet I still put on the seatbelt.

I don’t put on the seatbelt because I don’t have faith in the Stingray’s design.  I don’t put on the seatbelt because I lack faith in my driving skills.  I put on the seatbelt because it’s prudent.  Because no matter how much faith I have in the myself and the Stingray there’s a world out there beyond the two of us that we have to deal with.

So don’t mistake me for saying that if you want to become rich with the LOA you need to take all your money and invest it in something risky because that’s the only way to show true faith in the LOA.  Feel free to invest some money with absolute confidence things will turn out well, but hold a little to the side.  Again it isn’t a lack of faith, it’s just prudence.

The LOA is here to help you, not ruin you by taking unnecessary risks.  Just know that when you do use it that the LOA will provide, and it will.  But feel free to be prudent and wear your seatbelt as the LOA sometimes gives us what we need, not what we asked for.  Have a great day.