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Isn’t Your Life Path More Important Than A Physical Path?   Leave a comment

So I’ve been in Orlando (well technically Lake Buena Vista) for just under a week now.  I’ve spent most of the time here at the Sheraton Orlando Lake Buena Vista Resort as this is both where I’m staying and where the training is being held.

There are a lot of options for feeding myself around here and I’ve gotten to them just by walking there.  The weather has been most agreeable to walking from place to place.  I’ve also walked down to the local Winn Dixie to obtain stuff I’ve needed.

Now I’m still relatively new here so I’m still occasionally getting mixed up about what direction I’m headed.  This morning after trying a different place to eat (the Black Angus Steakhouse nearby had a wonderful breakfast buffet I wanted to try) I needed to go to the Winn Dixie to get some heavy cream for my coffee.  So I started walking and when I got to Palm Parkway I turned left and headed toward the Winn Dixie.

I was walking down the road when I realized it didn’t feel right.  I stopped, looked around, and realized I had gone the wrong way.  Realizing my mistake I kept going down the wrong path, farther and farther away from the my destination.

Of course that’s not really what I did.  Upon realizing my mistake I turned back around and when I got back to the intersection I went the correct way.  It’s only common sense.  And yet when it comes to our life’s direction we seem oddly content to do what I had suggested I did.

We are creatures of habit and even when we know that the direction we are metaphorically headed is moving us away from the place we want to be in life, for some reason we just keep walking down the same path.  How do we do that?  We associate with the same people who led us to where we are in life.  We engage in the same activities that have not gotten us the results we want.  We think the same thoughts about ourselves that have led to the devaluation of worth we feel towards ourselves.

So think about this.  If you’d feel silly continuing to walk down a physical path that you know doesn’t lead to the physical location you want to be, why are you content to stay on a life path taking you from the life you want?

Look at the life path you are on.  Do your friends help you get to the life you want?  If you answered no, maybe they aren’t the friends you need.  Do you engage in activities which move you closer to the life you want?  If you don’t, figure out the activities that do.  You only have 24 hours a day.  Fill those hours with activities that create the life you should know you deserve.

Do your thoughts move you forward on your life path?  They should.  If they don’t start paying attention to your self talk.  When thoughts creep in that have you taking the wrong turn at an intersection, get your bearing and replace them with the thoughts that have you moving down the correct path.

Don’t settle for less in walking your life path than you would walking a physical path.  Being on the wrong physical path just wastes your time.  Being on the wrong life path wastes something a lot more valuable.  Hope you have a great week walking the path taking you to the life of your dreams.  Peace.

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I’ve posted before about goal setting and checking your course every now and again.  It’s important to know where you are, where you want to be, and if you’re on the right path to get there.  Being on the right path, though, isn’t enough.

Will Rogers famously said “Even if you’re on the right track you’ll get run over if you just sit there.”  And that’s a very important message.

Think about this.  Perhaps you’ve wanted to lose weight and you’ve heard about the ketogenic diet.  So you get a curiosity about you on the topic and start looking online for information.  You find a blog or two about the ketogenic diet and you scroll through the posts and check out all the progress pics.  It certainly seems like the real deal.

You start following people on YouTube and Instagram that are living a ketogenic lifestyle.  From them you learn about their journey and what they’re doing daily to meet the goals of being keto.  You look back to past posts and videos and you’re amazed at how far they’ve come.  Clearly you can lose a lot of weight on the ketogenic diet.

But you’re a nuts and bolts kinda person so you download a few books on the ketogenic diet to your Kindle and get to reading.  Some of the books are broad and give sweeping advice, others are more narrow and scientific.  Altogether they have given you a complete understanding of how the diet works.  You understand ketosis like a pro.  You can develop ketogenic meal plans in your sleep.

Over the last month of information consumption you’ve become a storehouse of ketogenic knowledge.  I could ask you questions about gluconeogenesis and you could tell me for a guy my weight what level of protein to stay below to avoid it.  I could ask you the difference between ketosis and ketoacidosis and you could expound on that for an hour.  I’m at the store and want to buy something new, but I’m not sure if it’s keto friendly.  One text to you and now I do.  You’re clearly on the ketogenic track.

But you look down at your belly and you realize you haven’t even lost an ounce.  Why?  You’ve been so busy learning you haven’t been doing.  Having knowledge about a subject is great, but putting it into practice is better.  You need to take the first step and begin walking the path.

This applies to anything you might learn or think about.  Got goals?  Well if you aren’t taking steps to achieve them you’ve actually only Got dreams.  Want a calmer mind?  Sitting around thinking about a calmer mind pretty much is the opposite of what you’re after.  Thought about learning a new language?  Downloading Babel+ won’t get you any closer to that if you never open the app.

Don’t just find the path, walk it.  Don’t wonder how your life could be, live it.  To quote the great philosopher, “Do or do not, there is no try.”.  Take that first step down the right track today and you just got one step closer to the life you want to live.  Have a great day.  Peace.